Since the beginning, humanity has used every ounce of strength in its imagination in wanting to believe that change doesn’t happen.
Cave paintings, scrolls, religion, books, plays, philosophy, photography, film, radio, TV, politics, and war all have espoused a belief that change shouldn’t and can’t happen.
Big problem, though…
The fundamental property of this universe we all live in is change.
Everything from galaxies to microbes all change.
Evolve or…
Die.
So, anyone or anything trying to stop change from happening is on the losing side of the universe.
Trying to stop change from happening just can’t win.
It’s called impossible.
Now, understandably, change is not always welcome.
None of us want to get old.
None of us want to lose the people, the things we love.
But their all going to change.
It’s human not to want things to change.
It’s fundamental to the origins of humanity to want things to be the same.
Repeatable.
Established.
Regular.
Predictable.
That way, we all can make plans and not have them ruined by a rainstorm stopping our picnic.
But… shit happens.
So, if you think about it, and it’s obvious not many people do, why do we invest our time, our money, our blood, sweat, and tears into ideas that try to prevent change?
Fear.
Fear is the spider at the center of the web.
Change represents unpredictable outcomes.
What if people are free?
What if people can marry who they want?
What if people can be who they are?
What if people want to be equal?
What if people want to be loved?
All these and more represent a community and the individual to take a chance that change will not affect their picnic.
Yeah, so it was okay to free black people from slavery as long as no one was inconvenienced.
It was all right to give women the right to vote because most women couldn’t be bothered.
It was fair to desegregate schools and communities because we weren’t going to fund those schools and communities after.
My point is that change, for better or worse, will continue to happen, but not as expected.
With change there will always be outcomes that are not predictable.
That’s what change is.
That’s why I’m trying to get the attention of my conservative brothers and sisters and help them put into perspective their fear of change.
When gays got the right to marry, did frogs rain out of the sky?
When blacks got to vote, there were no more white elected officials, right?
When women entered the workforce, no man was ever hired again, correct?
When change happens, will things be different?
Yes, they will be different.
And that’s the beauty of change.
Where once there was a dead, dry seed, once planted, from that seed grows a tree under which the children and the children’s children of the planter will live, love, and know peace.
Change is gonna come…
Peace
Daniel J. Frey aka Toby
